April 1, 2009

Some do and don’t in front of couple

Some do and don’t in front of couple
No making fun on one of them in front of another.
Just like what I did before…
Here it goes,
Hey, yesterday u know ma, your bf hor fell from the tree and his underwear can be seen le…wahahhaha….so funny….u didn’t see his face turning red and it’s damn funny…(this is just an example la..)
And everyone will laugh because of this joke, and I’ll be so proud of saying this because I’m making jokes for my friend…
But the next day, you will be kena very badly…
So, please…no making fun of them…
I have learnt from this mistake and really sorry for what I did to you..
I really think that it’s a joke without realizing it hurts you.
So I apologize sincerely…orz

Ok. The next don’t is not to be too close to one of them.
I mean if you are a girl, obviously don’t be too close to the guy and vice versa, unless you are lesbian or gay…then I really say nothing.
This is the basic rule and I didn’t experience this before because I know this rule well...
For example, don’t try to take food for one of them because this is not your job!! Their partner will do that for she or he…and be seng mong a bit, provide a sit for them so that they can sit together!!
At least this rule Lynn did it very well…Proud of myself!!
because lynn is too blur to notice very small part of details..

Next, the do is to be transparent when couples are whisper sweet nothing to each other…
(this situation occurs when there are only 3 persons..)
To encounter this situation,
The best weapon is the HANDPHONE!! This time the hp really works…
(Always hp is nothing to me, that’s why I bought a cheap hp..Haha…)
When you guys come upon this kind of situation, immediately take out your handphone and try to do whatever you want even thought you feel not wanted to do…
or maybe you can sms friends that you are not sms them for years just to greet them…wow~~good idea!!May be I can try this next time..haha...
(hopefully no next time for me)

The last one I suggested is try not to be a spotlight.
What I mean spot light here is that one couple and you yourself…
That means 3 persons…or 2 couple and you yourself…
It’s like you are the one who is single…
This I personally experience it and it’s very terrible.
Why I say it terrible? Because the whole night will be both of them talking and I really can’t interrupt them…
Not that I didn’t try, I really tried hard but it’s not works or sometimes I feel tiring of doing that…
The moment I try to chat with them, I started very well..
Always I will start by saying how's your life now, long time no see hor…or so long didn’t find me ah?? Feel so stupid of doing this...haha…
And slowly they will back to their conversation and I’m totally out of the earth again…
I have to say this,
I really don't want to be spotlight, it’s “invited” to be…haha…
(Feel like I’m so popular hor…haha…but this is back few years ago..)
and sometimes I even reject going out with them..(feel so bad..)

This is some experiences I wanted to share with my friends..hehe...
no offense, if anyone feel it's too sensitive...
sorry for that...

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